"Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye" - H. Jackson Brown Jnr.
Welcome to the Month of February.
I know this came late since today is the 9th of February already.
Anyway it's the Month of Love again.
Don't roll your eyes yet.
I'm such a sucker for lovey dovey things.
Anyway I just got off the phone with my friend who was telling me bout what she's going to be up to this weekend and the details can't be blogged here... LOL... but it's good to know she'll have FUN!
I just want to say that I hear many complaints on the daily from my friends and that's why I love blogging off topics I hear from them and I would like to say no one can feel what you feel for your partner. You really shouldn't have to explain why you feel strongly about a guy or a girl you're dating or you really like, to anyone. I just think it's a decision you make solely, pray about and enjoy your self with them... If it works, Thank GOD...... if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world.... GOD provides :)
I just want to say that I hear many complaints on the daily from my friends and that's why I love blogging off topics I hear from them and I would like to say no one can feel what you feel for your partner. You really shouldn't have to explain why you feel strongly about a guy or a girl you're dating or you really like, to anyone. I just think it's a decision you make solely, pray about and enjoy your self with them... If it works, Thank GOD...... if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world.... GOD provides :)
I love the idea of intimacy however different couples define it in different ways so this blogpost isn't about bashing anyone's views of what it means. I just want to freely express myself and my thoughts.
I think Intimacy is sorta like saying "Into-me-see" depending on how you say it. That wasn't 'cool' abi? Yea I didn't think my 'cool' expression with the 'Into-me-see' would work either. I don't even think there's any accent in the world that pronounces 'Intimacy' as 'Into-me-see'... LOL.. yea yea whatever.
However when I think of intimacy, I definitely think of being extremely free with my significant other. I mean like fart, burp, say stupid things, express myself freely no matter how rude or bitchy or tacky or cheesy I might come across, to that ONE person. There's a side of us we usually express to the public and there's the other side that we keep bottled up like during the day when we're at work or in a lecture or in a meeting and someone has done something to piss us off but you know it's going to ruin things if you say EXACTLY what's on your mind so instead of saying "Seriously F£$% you and your stupidity", you say "Yea I understand. No problem". Well it's truly nice to have someone to go back to REALLY tell how you REALLY feel about it so they can make you feel better rather than you walking around with a sealed bottle of explosive anger.
That's just one scenario but by 'make you feel better', I don't mean your significant other supporting your view(s), I just mean it feels really good to have someone that you can tellalmost everything and someone you are sure is giving you sincere feedback. Sometimes, simply talking about an issue bothering you sorta makes you feel better whether there's a solution to it or not but the problem is always who to tell so yea I would say you would agree with me that it would feel really good to have a trustworthy partner to tell how you really feel. I know you'll say a friend can easily take up that role, well for some people that's true, friends easily take up that role but for some others, the intimacy they enjoy with their partners/significant others is definitely not the same trusting relationship they enjoy with friends. Both friendships and relationships are beautiful to enjoy but definitely not on the same wavelength. They're important in their respective ways. Never to be compared however make no mistake, a significant other/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner should always at least be your friend too.
A relationship is like getting a two in one combo from a person. Deep Friendship and a Lover in one Person.
Of course that's just the emotional side to intimacy which is major... The physical side is just heaven.
However when I think of intimacy, I definitely think of being extremely free with my significant other. I mean like fart, burp, say stupid things, express myself freely no matter how rude or bitchy or tacky or cheesy I might come across, to that ONE person. There's a side of us we usually express to the public and there's the other side that we keep bottled up like during the day when we're at work or in a lecture or in a meeting and someone has done something to piss us off but you know it's going to ruin things if you say EXACTLY what's on your mind so instead of saying "Seriously F£$% you and your stupidity", you say "Yea I understand. No problem". Well it's truly nice to have someone to go back to REALLY tell how you REALLY feel about it so they can make you feel better rather than you walking around with a sealed bottle of explosive anger.
That's just one scenario but by 'make you feel better', I don't mean your significant other supporting your view(s), I just mean it feels really good to have someone that you can tell
A relationship is like getting a two in one combo from a person. Deep Friendship and a Lover in one Person.
Of course that's just the emotional side to intimacy which is major... The physical side is just heaven.
Enjoy the rest of your day!
Miss Yxclusive
Good post. I've observed you to be a funny out-going person... You shaa disappointed me when you lashed out @ someone who noted stuff about your tweet. You rendered serious causes on him/her. That wasn't cool at all. I couldn't tweet @ you to calm down before you embarrase me too. People you don't know watch you, so let's be careful with what we say. Take care.- Stranger
ReplyDeleteCause doe.....*rolling*
ReplyDeleteI agree with u; a relationship shoul have both the physical and emotional
I definitely agree....Into-me-see :)
ReplyDeleteLove is such a beautiful thing *sigh*
ReplyDeleteMy fav line ---> "two in one combo"
Love it!